Jan 01 Submit Your Sex Questions to Ask Searah!

Written by Kathie Bergquist. Posted in Ask Searah: The Feminist Sex Lady

Baffled in Bemidji? Frisky in Fresno? Submit your sex questions to Ms. Fit’s very own feminist sex lady, Searah.

Email your questions to: asksearah@msfitmag.com

Questions can also be sent snail mail to:

Ask Searah c/o Ms. Fit Mag, PO Box 259483, Chicago, IL. 60625-4893

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Elle

May 13, 2013 | #

I have had sex with the same (awesome, patient, caring, attentive) partner for years, and thought my body was just ‘hit and miss’ with sex, and that that was my normal. I’m so happy to read this article and know that treatment might be possible for this condition if this is what I have. Time to see a gynecologist – thank you, Ms. Fit!

Lexa

May 13, 2013 | #

I read about a woman whose husband was a tattoo artist. He tattooed a nipple and aereola on her breast at her request. She said it wasn’t quite the same – there was no nipple you could touch or that stuck out – but from even a foot away it looked real.

It strikes me about our body parts and what they mean to us. I mean, what is a nipple, really? Just a bump. And yet if I were to lose mine…it represents so much. Your comment struck me the most: it has traveled!! It has been overseas.

I admire your bravery, your tenacity in processing, your evolving understanding and acceptance…and I am glad you are still with us.

Dylan

May 12, 2013 | #

This article is really amazing, seeing as I struggle with an extremely similar problem. I fight myself everyday and force myself to run on top of my busy dance schedule. I’ve been looking for a new way of thinking about my workouts. Your insight is amazing and inspiring. Thank you so much!

Brooke

May 11, 2013 | #

I completely agree with this comment. I’m a doctoral student in clinical psychology and recently gave a presentation on vaginismus and heteronormativity. So far, I haven’t found anything in the literature (medical, psych, or physical therapy) that talks about vaginismus with queer women. I interviewed several practitioners who use dilator therapy who did not understand why the treatment may not be appropriate for lesbians. Suffice it to say, I feel your pain, and I’ll do my part to try and add to the literature with my own work in the future. I second the call for Ms. Fit to do an article specifically about vaginismus (even vaginal pain in general, there’s so many conditions!) for lesbians and queer women. It really would mean a great deal. Thanks!

anna

May 10, 2013 | #

This was really interesting. I’ve never thought of using lube more often, but I think I’m going to have to. Thanks!

anna

May 10, 2013 | #

i love this post! i found it hard to unlearn the damaging crap from phys ed, and I’m glad and also depressed to not be alone in it. I especially love that you’ve mentioned that people get different things out of exercise, etc.

Thank you!

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